Safe spaces: Why Queer-Friendly Lodging is More Than Just a Label
“It’s 2026, nobody cares if you’re queer.”
We hear this a lot.
We’d love it if it were the case, but the reality for LGBTQ+ travelers is much different.
Neutrality is a luxury the targeted can’t afford, and "staying out of it" isn’t a neutral stance…it’s a choice to let hate go unchecked.
Check out our Instagram Post about why we always book with queer-friendly brands.
Why We Still Need Queer-Friendly Spaces
While the Pacific Northwest is often a sanctuary, the global and national climate reminds us why visibility matters. Consider these facts:
In 2025 alone, there were 616 anti-LGBTQ bills introduced in the United States.
Queer people are 5x more likely than non-queer people to be victims of violent crimes.
82% of LGBTQ+ travelers have reported feeling unsafe or uncomfortable while traveling.
Queer-friendly lodging is essential for providing stress-free travel. When hotels and short-term rentals are visible allies, we know we can look forward to an experience free from hostility and discrimination.
What Actually Makes a Stay “Queer-Friendly?”
It’s more than just putting a rainbow sticker in the window. When we research stays, we look for these six green flags:
Representation: Do their website and social media images include LGBTQ+ and gender-diverse people?
Policies: Do they have explicit, written policies protecting LGBTQ+ guests and staff?
Community: Do they partner with local queer businesses and Pride events?
Training: Do they have a trained, diverse staff that understands inclusive hospitality?
Reviews: Do they receive positive feedback from actual queer travelers regarding safety and respect?
Check out our recent Instagram Post for other ways we ensure we book queer-friendly stay!
Inclusive PNW Stays We Love
We’ve done the research and had incredible experiences at these locations across Oregon and Washington. These stays aren’t afraid to be bold, be visible, and be true allies.
Check out these Instagram Posts about Oregon Stays
Urban Escapes & Boutique Gems
Hotel Andra (Seattle, WA): A sophisticated, stylish stay in the heart of the city.
Hi-Lo Hotel (Portland, OR): Modern aesthetics meet authentic Portland inclusivity.
Hyatt Regency at Lake Washington (Renton, WA): Stunning water views with a staff that makes everyone feel like a VIP.
Unique Stays & Cozy Cabins
The Eugene Dome (Eugene, OR): For those looking for a one-of-a-kind, geodetic experience.
Campfire Hotel (Bend, OR): A vintage-camp-inspired hotel that is high on vibes and high on allyship.
Cabin Rancho 72 (PNW): A perfect forest retreat for those looking to unplug in a safe environment.
Stay at Pinehaven (Wamic, OR): Quiet, beautiful, and deeply welcoming.
Coastal & Mountain Retreats
The Bowline (Astoria, OR): Industrial chic on the riverfront where you can watch the ships go by.
Salishan Coastal Lodge (Gleneden Beach, OR): A luxury coastal resort that stands firmly by the community.
Sun Outdoors (Coos Bay, OR): High-end outdoor hospitality for the adventurous soul.
Bay Point Landing (Coos Bay, OR): Modern cabins and Airstreams on the Oregon coast.
Icicle Village Resort (Leavenworth, WA): A Bavarian mountain escape where you can book with confidence.
Final Thoughts: Be Bold, Be Visible
When you book your next trip, choose the places that choose you. Supporting inclusive businesses isn't just about a vacation; it's about putting your money behind places that share your values and showcase their support!
Which of these PNW spots are you adding to your bucket list?
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